First, thanks to everyone for your comments and other messages. They brighten my day. They also remind me that people might actually read things I post, which is both reassuring and a bit confusing in terms of deciding what and how to write…
Second, this post is epic, entirely random, and perhaps not all that informative. I feel there are important subjects to discuss but that I wanted to provide some (perhaps too much) context. So read at your own discretion.
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It has been nearly a month since we arrived in Malawi and the time has flown by. When people ask how I am enjoying it my answer inevitably includes something about how different it is from Canada and how I am still adjusting. In the past week I have just begun to feel that the vice of culture shock has started to loosen its’ grip on my brain! I am quite certain I have never experienced culture shock to that extent and attempting to explain it is rather daunting. So maybe I’ll leave it for now. Suffice it to say that I now feel that I am coming up for air and will try to convey a bit more of my experience thus far…
Part I: “Moving” Day(s)
Eeeeehheeeeyyyyyy (like “uhuh” but uniquely African).
So, after 12 hours pounding the pavement in the hot, I mean hot, sun, we managed to find two, count ‘em, two, potential places to live. We opted not to take the one close to work because it is a bit expensive (relatively speaking) and would not provide the same opportunities to interact with locals.
Our accommodation of choice is in Chinsapo, which is sort of a village on the outskirts of the city (city limits seem to be somewhat amorphous). The house is in a fenced-in compound with two other families in separate houses. It has two bedrooms (visitors welcome!!!!), a kitchen, living room and bathing room (not to be confused with a bathroom). The concept of rooms with different functions is a bit misleading since there is really nothing to differentiate them, other than the use. The bathing room is used for bucket showers, wherever I decide to put the hotplate becomes the kitchen.
There is no running water but there is a standpipe and a latrine in the compound. I will have to learn the bucket-on-head technique. The electricity was not completed before the landlord’s husband passed away but there are wires everywhere (literally) so I am hoping to get connected asap. I have decided to afford myself this luxury (and it is a luxury) to cook on a hotplate, iron my clothes (appearances are important and work dress is quite formal) and charge my gadgets.
So this morning I managed to purchase a “mattress” (ridiculously expensive piece of foam with a cover which is also a luxury as most people sleep on grass mats), two bed sheets, and a pillow. The whole endeavour took about four hours, more than an hour of which was spent waiting in line, two of them actually, to use the bank machine (in the hot sun). The first line was exceptionally long because only one of the two machines was working but after waiting in line for about 45 minutes the machine decided to stop cooperating. On to the next line at the bank across the street for another half hour wait. The lines have been really long for the past week or so since it is month end and people, those who have jobs and bank accounts, are waiting for hours to use the few functioning bank machines. I am curious to see if it is always like this and am planning to avoid bank machines next month-end.
I then braved the market solo to find said purchases. I think the market experience is a good analogy of my experience thus far in Malawi. It has been an emotional rollercoaster (for lack of a better cliché). At the same time, it is difficult to isolate emotions and symptoms as there are so many variables to consider. I am not sure my emotional tendencies are due to the heat, my malaria medication or my, so far, limited success in speaking Chichewa.
Part II: “Moving” Day(s) Continued…
It’s Saturday and a cool 26 degrees in Lilongwe today!
That last bit was four days ago and the move is not yet complete…for a variety of reasons, the most salient being the electricity (or lack thereof). While the electrician has completed the work, the power is not yet connected but is supposed to be sometime next week. So for now I am still a fixture at the guest house where I have been since arriving…
www.mabuyacamp.com
I highly recommend the place if you plan to visit Lilongwe and admittedly I have become rather too comfortable here! Regardless, I hope to move to our new home in the next week or two and will post pictures as soon as I can (probably not very soon)!
Part III: A Day in the Life
I want to convey a lot more about Malawi and what I’m actually doing here (determining this is a work in progress) but feel that providing some context might be helpful. So here you go…
I am generally wide awake (like clockwork) at 5:15 in the morning but my intellect rails against getting up at what it considers to be unreasonably early. As such I generally avoid being vertical before 6:00 a.m. By African standards this is actually quite late as it seems most people are up with the sun or before. My coworker Grace assures me it is not uncommon for her to be up at 4:00 or 4:30. So sleep is another luxury that is afforded to me as an azungu as, unlike the majority of women in Malawi (more than 50% of people live below the poverty line of 11 cents a day), I do not spend hours of my day walking miles to a water point which after waiting possibly for hours may or may not have water, washing clothes (that are always dirty due to either dust or mud, depending on the season) by hand (with or without soap depending on whether or not I can afford it), cooking for a large family (there are so many children) over a charcoal fire, or doing any other number of what we would consider chores but in Malawi are daily challenges.
I leave just before 7:00 and walk to the minibus “stop,” which are apparently designated stops but there is nothing to indicate such. It seems people (not azungus) just know where they are. This can create some strenuous moments as you see a minibus careening towards you when walking on the side of the road (no sidewalks). So, a minibus is any style of minivan masquerading as a bus. However that is not to suggest there are schedules as they are privately owned and they generally do not leave until full, which varies from immediately to a half hour from when you get on…
Often people think it is hilarious watching large azungus (such as myself) trying to gingerly get on and off the minibus. Malawians manage to squeeze past each other with next to no squeezing space. So this should give you a sense of the notion of “personal space.” I often find people resting there hand on my leg without seeming to notice. The first minibus goes to the bottom of the hill and then I walk about five minutes to the Shoprite to catch another one to city centre, or “area 12.” Waiting for the minibus to fill ensues…
Lilongwe is divided into numbered areas that make absolutely no sense to me. Various areas have been pointed out to me repeatedly but so far I have not been able to discern any sort of pattern. “City centre” is where the government ministries, banks, diplomatic missions, executive hotels and corporate and NGO offices are and it is by far the most developed area in Lilongwe. It is in stark contrast to “old town,” where the main market is. The division between city centre and old town is the result of Lilongwe being named the capital of Malawi in 1974 (prior to that Zomba was the capital) and the subsequent development of city centre. The Lilongwe Nature Sanctuary separates the two.
Minibuses are not all created equal and some of them when faced with traffic jams opt to veer off the pavement and surpass traffic by driving beside the road. This is always an extremely bumpy option that no one ever seems bothered by.
After anywhere between a half hour and an hour fifteen (makes it difficult to plan), I get off the bus to walk another ten minutes to work. This is one of my favourite parts of the day because I can walk in relative quiet anonymity (the azungus generally work in city centre and are less of an anomaly) under intermittent shade. The other day while walking a girl stopped me and asked if I could employ her. This happens frequently as people assume that as an azungu you have the power and authority to give people jobs.
I generally arrive at the office just before 8:00 and inevitably everyone is there before me. I spend the day in the field or the office and attempt to learn some Chichewa simultaneously (save work details for another post to avoid making this one even more of a tome).
Lunch usually consists of nsima and relish, either eaten communally at work (as in from the same plate), or purchased at a restaurant in the market, which is actually more of an outdoor, covered hut with plastic chairs that serves food. What continues to amaze me is that there is an errand boy (for lack of a better term that I can think of to explain) who does the cleaning and other chores and cooks nsima for lunch with vegetables from the garden outside! My personal favourite relish so far is made with oilseed rape leaves. There are apparently different varieties of oilseed rape, the one you are probably familiar with is canola, which was developed in Canada and is grown specifically in North America. My least favourite relish is “usipa” which are small fish around 2 or 3 inches in length.
The minibus ride home is essentially the same as the morning but in reverse. Although a couple times last week the ride was interrupted due to an “acute gas shortage” (ran out of gas) which was rectified by the money collector running to the nearest gas station.
Since it is generally not advisable to be out after dark in Lilongwe (unless you take an expensive taxi), the evenings are generally spent reading or writing emails (although I will be moving to the village shortly and my ability to access internet will decrease considerably). I am generally engulfed by fatigue by around 8:30 p.m. and fall asleep to the sounds of traffic outside the compound muffled by ear plugs (except when there is a party outside my dorm room until 4:30 a.m. as was the case a few nights ago).
Oh my gosh, this post needs to end….
Random details:
· The field truck does not have a radio (or back doors that you can open from the inside) but my coworkers enjoy listening to a few songs on their cell phones, particularly “Red Red Wine” by UB40 and Dolly Parton’s It’s Too Late to Love Me Now. Unexpectedly, I have a new appreciation for Dolly.
· The development machine is ever-present and seemingly ubiquitous. At a roundabout it is not uncommon that every second vehicle is that of an international NGO or aid organization. Logos are very often seen on t-shirts and chitenges as well. One t-shirt was prompting “accelerated child survival development.”
· I hope to do a billboard expose at some point. One billboard supporting nurses warns “soon there will be no angels left on earth.” I just find the marketing and language particularly interesting.
· It seems that almost everyone has a cell phone. There are two main service providers that provide pay-as-you-go service and as such you can buy extra airtime at pretty much every corner (literally as there are either plastic tables set up for this purpose or people selling airtime on the street).
· Babies. They are everywhere. Women tend to grap them by one arm, sling them over their shoulders and balance them on their backs while securing them with chitenges.
Thanks for reading. I’m working on posting some more photos.
~Alynne